Monday, September 12, 2011
Storgic Lovers and Dating
The problem is that the process with this lover will be so gradual, it will be hard to recognize at what point your friendship graduates to a relationship. So if you need constant validation on the status of your relationship, this may not work for you. And in some cases, these lovers become content with the friendship "as is" and hesitate to move forward to the next level. Also, they may also lack passion in and out of the bedroom. Please know that it may be months before you get busy, due to their "getting to know you" process. And when it does happen, don't be surprised if sparks don't fly; it's just not on the top of their list of priorities. So, if sexual chemistry ranks high with you, this may not be the one for you. However, because of the strong bond, they'll be willing to be taught how to please you (if you know how to please yourself; if not, this won't work, at all). If you're a Storgic lover, you're a rare breed: in the days of immediate gratification and walking silicone Barbie replicas, you manage to place value on the interior. But you probably get passed up a lot for the more interesting and exciting man/woman. Remember: In life, there is balance. Take it slow, but don't give a person time to lose interest. And seek deeper meaning in your relationship, but realize that sex is a very important expression of love and intimacy, and will bring you and your partner even closer, in every way.