Monday, September 12, 2011
Pragmatic Lovers and Dating
If you're with a pragmatic lover, I really hope you've been honest with them about who you are. It's only so long you can pretend to be what you're not. And seeing as pragmatic lovers are intuitive and logical, once they peep your facade consider it over! These types are so in control of their lives, the mere fact that you were able to manipulate them threatens their very foundation, in their mind. If you're the pragmatic lover, I'm going up to tell you to stop and smell the roses and relax a bit. But I'm sure I'm not the first to say that, huh? Structure and discipline in life are essential, I agree. But if the only thing you is you- your needs, wants, desires, etc.- you'll miss the big picture of happiness: love, affection and intimacy. And sex is not a reward for a job well done, it's an important part of your bond with your lover. Don't look at people solely for what they add to your life, bur for what you both bring to the table for the life you share with one another.