Monday, September 12, 2011
Agapic Lovers and Dating
The problem with Agapic lovers are that they are so good to you, you may feel guilty or inferior for not giving them the "perfect love" back. Also, these types may become martyrs which could destroy the entire relationship. If you're with an Agapic lover, please appreciate them! But don't take advantage and leave them wounded. If you find that you don't want to be with them, don't lead them on. Be kind and direct. And, as a word of advice, cut ties for about six months to allow time to really heal and move on- this lover has the tendency to wait for the lover to return after a breakup. If you're an Agapic lover, the best thing you can do for yourself is realize that the love you give isn't always going to be the love you receive. You're going to get hurt, a lot. The key is to learn the lessons that are meant to be received, live your life and regain your joy and above all, never be afraid to love again. Love is Gods greatest gift, don't let it pass you by.